Election 2010: Isang Tanong Part Two

Sad thing that Sen. Noynoy Aquino III was no longer there. I was really hoping to hear more from him since his friend Sen. Chiz Escudero already backed out from the presidential race. Filed his COC a little too early when all his opponents seemed to be taking their time. The Second part was not really as useful for me as I hoped it would be. Anyhow, just to share some insights.

I was impressed by the way Former President Estrada redeemed himself this time. He supported his answers with figures. Pretty impressive, I would say. I got his point when he said that the Philippines was really down when he assumed office due to the Asian financial crisis that time plus, thanks to the info shared by a good friend who enlightened me of what happened back then.

When Councilor JC De Los Reyes was asked why he's in such a hurry to be president jumping from councilor to president. I have to admit that it was a bold move and little too ambitious as well. I just found it a little funny for the good councilor to quote BATMAN and his being a hero and all for his answer.

Senator Manny Villar was straight forward with his answers. His money being the issue at hand. I beg to differ though when he said that he was not popular. A Senator, and once a Senate President?

And Lastly for Former National Defense Secretary, Gibo Teodoro. Well ,what do we expect? He's a gang dang lawyer. Honestly, if he was not running on the administration side I bet he'll be even more eligible for the presidency.

All the others? Yeah, I heard the words but none of them really registered. I don't know if it was the questions asked or if it's their answers that didn't made sense. For those of you who were not able to watch the second part. You can do so in youtube.com. Just follow the link below.

Eleksyon 2010:Isang Tanong - The Presidential Forum

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Prayers for Maguindanao

Almost a week after the horrible incident, families, friends and colleagues are still  in search of justice. I share their sentiments  and I am one with them in prayer.

Once again the Philippines made it to the books. Holding  yet another title for the most number of journalists killed in one incident. It's not about killing media men that is alarming  but  the sense of lawlessness in certain places in our country, especially in Mindanao. Doesn't matter  what their professions are.  These journalists are people too. A father, a mother, a husband, a wife, a son, a daughter to someone. It's not just about suppressing the news but rather because there are  people waiting for them to come home.

It's just sick and unimaginable that someone could commit and mastermind such an act, whatever the motivation maybe. Rido or not! I don't believe in  capital punishment but right now that's all I could think of, so as to even out the playing field somehow. After all, this is more heinous than rape and even more serious than drug trafficking. An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth as they say.

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Define VINDICATED

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It's just sad that the former president feels this way. I wasn't able to watch the whole thing last Sunday but luckily, thanks to the power of the web I got to see it in youtube. Yes we were wrong in making you president once and we got your replacement wrong too but dang. It doesn't mean we have to apologize to you for that. Don't seek refuge on the fact that what happened back then was the cause of all that's wrong in the government now. Vindicated is such a strong word to use.

17 years as Mayor of San Juan? Imagine that. I refuse to believe that only one family out of all the families in a city is capable of service. This has been the trend of Politics here in our country. If dad can no longer run for office or is now a step higher in the political ladder then the wife runs. After the wife the son. Thus, Dynasties are formed. Funny right?

It doesn't matter if the city you represent became number one during the entire time you were mayor but given the 17 years, dang! A term is more than enough if your main concern is public service but 17 years is just playing greedy. Pass on the responsibility to somebody else. Cause even the host of the Olympics does this.

Life is too short. Enjoy it while you still can. Don't you think you've served and entertained the public long enough Mr . President?

I can't wait for the part two, of the Presidential Forum I mean.

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Negosyante at Empleyado

Kalunos lunos na kalagayan ng mga Pilipino, iba't ibang mukha ng kahirapan sa iba't ibang parte ng Bansa ang mga feature sa "Byaheng Totoo" ng GMA7 kung saan isang notebook na inililibot sa mga pinaka mahihirap na lugar sa Pilipinas na kung saan maaaring isulat dito ang mga hinanaing ng ating mga kapwa sa susunod na pangulo ng Pilipinas.

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Sa kabila ng mga kaguluhan dito sa Maynila tungkol sa nalalapit na Election, may mga kababayan tayong hindi ito alintana dahil sa kahirapan. Kung minsan hindi ko tuloy maiwasang maisip na mukhang wala naman ata talagang balak ang gobyerno na lutasin ang prublema ng kahirapan dahil ito rin ang kanilang pangunahing kasangkapan tuwing sasapit ang ganitong mga panahon.

Marami ang nagsasabi na ang pulitika dito sa ating bansa ay Negosyo , wala nang iba. At ang mga negosyante, sino pa? Di ang ating mga opisyal na nakaupo sa gobyerno. Eto ang ilang mga salita, paganahin natin ang ating imahinasyon upang ikonek. Investment, Capital, Advertising, Operational Costs, Target Market, Profit, Family Business. May Konek ba?

Kabi-kabila ang mga "Infomercials" ng ating mga negosyante umeere sa telebisyon. Ginastusan. Nanghihikayat sa ating mga konsumer na sila ang bilhin sa darating na halalan. Samu't saring gimik. Mga sikat na personalidad, Prinsipyo, Bagong pulitika, ultimo mga ordinaryong mamamayan na nagpapatotoo ng kanilang galing at kung anu-ano pang mga pangako. Iyan ay ilan lamang sa mga instrumentong gamit ng ilan. Ang malungkot nito tulad ng ibang produkto, kung wala itong magadang kakompitensya sa merkado, wala din tayong choice. Minsan lang nakakasawa na.

Huwag nating isipin na utang na loob sa mga Negosyanteng ito ang kanilang mga nagawa habang sila ay nakaupo sa gobyerno. Parte ito ng kanilang tungkulin sa masang Pilipino. "Public Servant" diba, na tulad ng isang empleyado sila ay binibigyan ng karampatang sweldo, benepisyo at kung anu-anong mga bonus para dito.

Maraming Eksperto ang nagsasabi na mas matalino na daw ang Pinoy ngayon dahil hindi na tayo nadadala sa papularidad, sa yaman, at mulat na tayo sa mga nangyayari sa ating bansa. "I doubt if all these will really make a difference this 2010." Minsan kasi hindi naman tayo ang prublema kundi ang ating mga pinagpipilian at ang sistema. Isang malaking kalokohan din ang Ideya ng itinatak sa ating mga isipan ng mga Edsa Rebolusyon, na pwede nating patalsikin sa pwesto ang kung sino mang Pangulo kung sawa na tayo.

Half Truths About Some Facebook Apps

You wanna know why some Facebook apps really click? It's not because you could interact with other players from the other side of the globe, not even of it's cute graphics.

I was really hesitant to try them at first cause I know I have a tendency to get really hooked but what could I say, I succumbed to its pleasures. Why not? Kids are doin it, adults are doin it even grandma and grandpa are addicted to it. I know a lot of friends who really made them their life. Farmtown at the office, Farmville during breaks, Yoville with friends and cafe world before sleep. Forget about the real world for a moment and chill in your farm or in your kitchen. I guess programmers has discovered what people really like. A virtual world wherein everybody has a claim to everything. A piece of land, a house, a dog even that you can call by any name. You get paid handsomely when you work with other peoples farms and you'll never have to go broke again. You can buy stuff, reorganize and redecorate everything with just a click of a button.

The games come with a natural high. We used to be merely content with black and white asteroids beaming at the screen, or how Mario would jump amazingly over a crazed turtle. Everyday it feels like coming home to a baby, clicking the computer on and waiting for your cafe to start cooking and your fishes to start growing up. In any sense possible, we are all guilty of such addiction, no matter how much we unconciously deny it. Who am I to judge anyone when I am part of this so-called computer interactive activity?

Sometimes you would ask why it does become an addiction. It's possible that a part of it is the anticipation of moving on to the next level and finding out what's available next for us to buy or upgrade thus feeding our sense of discontentment. We just have to find out what's on the next level. Sometimes we find ourselves living the life we long for secretly, why else would you post your achievements on your wall for everybody to see?

But ever wonder why such addiction cannot be consumed in real life? Why can we not bring our dedication outside the four walls of our houses or a semi-dark internet cafe? Wouldn't it be better to havest and plow your crops on a real farm? Or save for an awesome condo unit just like in Yoville?

It's okay to play and have fun, after all we need that escape once and awhile from our daily routine. But remember that a game is just a game, because the real scores of your life are based on what you do when you're not in front of your computer.

The Letter

Found a letter in between the pages of a magazine the other day at a coffee house near the office. I just want to share it to you guys. I don't know if this letter has already reached its intended recipient. It's a long shot I know but what the hell.

The Letter reads:

Dad,

How are you? It has been a while huh? Well, come to think about it, we have never really talked. As in talk talk. And that's one reason why I decided to write to you now.

Here it goes.

I remember you being the strictest father when we were growing up. I hated you and all your House Rules that I never really understood. At times I even envy my friends for their fathers and wishing that I was one of theirs.I know it was stupid but that's just how I felt back then. I also hated how you always favored our youngest over me even though it was his fault. Always saying "Pag bigyan mo na. Ikaw ang nakatatanda."

It's just now that I realize that the punishment you gave me was just and that all those rules have made me a better person. That I was still lucky that you don't beat me up all night just like those in the news.

There were a lot of things that I wish you've done but that's just me wishing. I know it was never easy to have a family that early. If there was a question that I would want to ask you it's how you did it? What was your secret? Cause God knows I'm trying so hard to be just like you. a father, a provider, and a caring partner.

We never really communicated well. I know it's my fault. You tried on your part. I remember the time when you first learned that you're about to be a grand dad. I thought you'll be angrier than mom. How you never objected to my supposed wedding, cause I know that you know that it's the right thing to do. Just remembering all those things makes me even prouder than ever. I know you're not perfect but to me, you're more than a father any son could ever ask for.

I know I have been your biggest disappointment yet. I'm really really sorry. I thought I could make you proud of me being independent and all but I was wrong, No one has given me the clearest perspective of life but you yet I failed to see all those. Every year I spent away from you are years that I know I could never ever give back. I'm sorry. You once said to me that the only time that I'd realize the things that you tirelessly teach me is when I have my own family and my own children to look after. Guess what? You were right.

I so much wanted to grow up and now that I am. I cant help but see the years that I wasted. If I can be given a second chance in life I know that that's where I want to be. Beside you!

But if there's one thing that you taught me that I will never ever forget. It's how family should always come first.

I have never thanked you for everything. I know I can never thank you enough but let me try... Dad, Thank you and I love you!

Women/We Men

They say men and women are created equal. That there's nothing a man can do that a woman can't. Except to pee on a cup standing up off course (physiological). But in a society that still reflects the olden ways, I say women still has a lot to prove. But believe it or not they're doing it. Take for example the 11th President of the Philippines is a woman. (The 14th doesn't count cause shes only half a woman) Joke Joke Joke! Kidding aside. My Boss is a woman too and she's already proven her worth on her craft. I mean they've already risen from the stigma that a womans place is at home, to watch over the kids, to do chores, etc.

Now, we see them busier than ever. I see odd jobs that only men typically do being done by a woman. Like driving a cab, or a tricycle even. Pretty impressive. Sometimes they even bring home more dough than us men. Which is a good thing in times like this.

Since we now all agree on the premise that women are no less than men. Then maybe it's time to consider some issues that really frustrate a lot of us men.

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I just have to share this. Everyday I commute to work. Every time I ride the bus there's always a story to tell. It's like there's a whole sub culture going on in a bus. You see different types of passengers. Big, small, men, women, young and old. There's the office type, the college teen etc. Here's one of my favorite. Even though the bus is already jampacked(definitely you can see this from outside the bus). Passengers who're avoiding a memo for tardiness will definitely jump in. Ladies included. To hell with poise. I dunno but somehow I couldn't help but think, are they still counting on the men to offer them a sit? And luckily, this has never disappointed me yet. Yes, there are still those who 'd stand and offer their seats to women. But never have I seen a woman giving up her seat for an elderly man. But when a man doesn't give up his, it automatically means that chivalry is dead.

Fairy tales have played a big part in this somehow. You know, the ones our parents read to us as bed time stories. You know Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, Rapunzel and Snow white. These stories always depict that princesses are supposed to be rescued by their prince charmings. Not considering that we, men sometimes need rescuing too.

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One more thing, have you tried to catch a train (Lrt/Mrt) during rush hour? Lucky for the women they have the first cart to themselves. Imagine what it's like for us men to be stuck inside a moving box oozing with testosterone. The only female left to see are those with their boyfriends if not their husbands. But seriously, don't you think that this is a sign of weakness? That the longer you take advantage of this, the more you're proving just the opposite of what you've fought for. Why not inhibit and just let first box be exclusive for the children and the elderly (Men/women) instead? Like in a sinking ship. In the Movie "Titanic" for example. Row boats are for the women and children first. If I was on that boat together with my wife and kid I'd surely understand. But if I'm alone and my family's waiting for me at home and I don't know how to swim, I'd definitely want a seat on that raft. You see what I mean? We have lost a lot of good men on that tragic night. Men like Jack Dawson (Wink).

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Wait, we're not done yet. Every year we celebrate National Womens Month, Once a week bars admit women for free or give them complimentary drinks because its ladies night. While the only time we(men) get to enjoy perks like these is when we reach age 65.

We have heard your cries of inequality and injustice, Now hear ours! Hehehe

Pacquiao Vs. Cotto - Fire Power (15-Nov.09)

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Boxing enthusiasts have been talking about this fight for months. Though I'm not one of them I admire how this sport has brought Filipinos together. This will be Pacmans 7th Championship belt in 7 Different Weight divisions. Trully, a record breaking feat for the peoples champ. The fight was stopped on the 12th round in favor of Manny.

In this Fight I came to admire how the Puerto Rican fought upto the last round. He fought smart. He knew he has nothing left and he will not give in to Pacmans wrath. He will not give Manny the satisfaction of a KO. I also look up to him for his Sportsmanship. Immediately approaching Pacmans corner to give the winner a congratulatory hug. To you Miguel Cotto," Mabuhay ka!" Good Fight Señor.

To Pacman, Sir, you have been an Icon not only here in our country but to all sports lover around the world. I salute you for that! Your accomplishments will not only be etched on our countrys boxing history but also in our hearts for being the God Fearing and Down to Earth Person that you are. "Mabuhay ang Pilipinas at ang Pilipino!"

Kiannas 5th Birthday

Kianna's 5th Birthday was a Sunday and according to her there's no class the following day because it's Kianna Day. "Talaga naman. Manang mana." Happy Birthday Baby I hope you had Fun. I love you so much!

Inside a Mans Head ... Is a Woman

The Battle of the sexes has been going on since the beginning of time but what we fail to realize is that there really is no battle at all. Cause We, Men can live without you Girls as much as we hate to admit it and Vice Versa. This thing can really be difficult to swallow but we just have to deal.

Same sex marriage and same sex relationships does not fall under this category. I'm pretty sure that it's a gene thing. No offense.

One reason I see is that we Filipinos tend to jump on a relationship at a very early age for what ever reason. Without even realizing as to what we're getting into. All we have as weapon and shield are some tiny winy knowledge of Anatomy that we probably learned in Health Ed on the 5th grade and the only concrete image we have of the opposite sex is how we view our mother or father and the rest is come what may. Who can blame them? I mean LOVE at this stage is pure and unadulterated. Grown Ups call this puppy love. What ever that means.

We end up getting badly hurt, and stereotyping each other. That men are like this and women are like that.

So now that we're all grown ups here let's talk about men and women in general. Here are some points. Let's tart with women.

Women are like antique vases. Fragile and beautiful. You don't wanna talk too much if you're with them. It just turns them off. So If I were you let them do the talking instead. You should also be careful with the choice of words you use. Small words will do. Cause an inappropriate word could result in mood swings. Women are very prone to this. Well according to Mark Gungor, women think of a lot of things at any given time. And this trait gives them the upper hand on multi -tasking. Aren't they great? They can talk on the phone while cooking and watching over the kids while the dryer is running. I salute them for this. They can have a 9 to 5 job and still make it home to prepare dinner. Now going back. Women like numbers, dates and shopping. It's a constant. But let's not make it a big deal when we, men forget our monthsary. Especially if we've already celebrated our 1st year. It's pretty hard to keep up with all the dates if we'll also include our weeksary. But hey, Women just like to make every occasion special its not a problem with them if theres no occassion cause they could make one just as easy.

Now, us men on the other hand are less complicated than you women. You can leave us with the remote and we'll be fine. We're like puppies. Just make sure that there's food on the fridge. We enjoy every minute we spend with you girls. But we also enjoy the time we spend away from you especially if we're with the guys. And girls if you're wondering what we do when we're together, DON'T. Just let it be. Though we're not good as you women in multi tasking. We try. But if you want a job done right, don't give us more than what we can handle. Here's another thing that I learned from Mark Gungors videos. We men have a nothing box. We like to spend at least a few moments a day in this box (catatonic state). Since we can't do it a work, you probably catch us in this place at home. There's nothing wrong. We're not thinking of a beautiful lady either. It's just our way of destressing. Do nothing and think nothing.

In short, Men and Women compliment each other. Well up to this point im just stating the obvious. But yes we very much do.

Disclaimer: This is article is not written for either men or women but instead for the readers to have a deeper understanding of the opposite sex. Violent reactions are welcome.

Livin' In My Dreams

They say it is during sleep that we get a taste of death but for me, it is where my life begins. I start a life without hunger, without hate, and without inhibitions. A perfect world as a may say. I have traveled not only to places but also in time. I have met people who I know by face and never got the courage to approach awake. I have shared moments with friends who I know are working overseas. Dined with family who I know I will never see again in this lifetime.

It's like I'm an actor in my own show. A star even. I already played a part of a super hero where I flew like Superman. A victim of a tragic accident. A ruler of my own kingdom. I have battled with phantoms, werewolves, vampires and zombies. This is also where a Genie granted my Three wishes. Just this Morning I was in prison attempting to escape.

But sadly, never have I witnessed the ending of all these. I have to die back to reality and realize it was all a dream. Sometimes I wake up crying because I wasn't able to say goodbye to a Loved one. Nervous because I knew the bullet hit me in the chest. Sometimes frustrated because the hot chick I came home with was almost naked in my bed. And most times I wake up with a smile on my face having no clue as to why.

Most of these dreams I can no longer remember, Others I sometimes mistake for the real thing and some I choose to keep to myself but just the same It's all just a dream. And just like in Death, all the fame and fortune can never cross to the other side.

Mothers Gone Bad???

I've been a couch potato these past few days and I can’t help but notice several shows airing during prime time at a certain TV station that portrays mothers roles quite differently from how we Filipinos view them, well at least for me. I’m just wonderin’ what happened to the caring, loving and self sacrificing motherly image? Well I do not know how they view mothers from where they adopted those novellas (Korea/Mexico, two of which are originally ours) but here in the Philippines, our parents come right after God.

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Ikaw sana: Maritoni Fernandez( Mother of Sophia)

Darna: Janice De Belen( Mother of Valentina)/Rita Avila( Mother of Narda)

Stairway to Heaven: Jean Garcia( Mother of Eunice and Tristan)

Rosalinda: Sheryl Cruz( Mother of Fernando Jose)

I noticed the similarities not only of the plot... You know, Where the "Bida" endures every bit of pain from every struggle and triumphs over them. But in these shows those struggles were engineered by the Mother of the Antagonist. Crazy right? No matter how good the plot is or how necessary the character is, I think it’s not worth sacrificing the way how Mothers should be portrayed. Not even if the one portraying the role is really wicked and fits well to be a bad mom. Even if there is a redeeming factor at the end.

Well you wouldn't know what I'm talking about until you see for yourself but believe me, Damn! You might not be able to do that because of your busy schedule but ask yourself this? What is my child watching right now with his/her yaya at home?

Hey, I love my Mom... You probably do to. That’s exactly why I’m sharing this thought with you guys and lets not forget that the family is the core of Filipino Values. Same is true with how we see each and every member of it.